12.02.2006

A Great Blog Post on Social Relationships

This morning I came across an insight-packed post on Wade Schuette's blog, Perspectives in Public Health. The post, entitled "The importance of social relationships," examines the many levels on which social relationships can positively influence our lives, and society. Here's a tidbit to whet your appetite:
When cells are removed from the human body, they simply die. It turns out to be very hard to build a "cell line" that survives when detached. The cells commit suicide, in a process called apoptosis - they simply lose the will to live and shut down. There's increasing evidence that a similar process happens among people.

If so, the recent work by Robert Putnam in Bowling Alone, and the Duke study, Social Isolation in America, and a Boston Globe review of both might show one reason why there is a rising tide of mental illness and depression in America today. These "psychosocial" factors reveal that humans are not really isolated units, but are units that only work well when embedded in a strong, interactive, supportive social context.

Another point from the post that jumped out at me, in the context of the work environment, was the following:
Research studies show that over half the productivity of development groups is due to unscheduled, accidental, spontaneous discussions between people that take place outside the formal business structure.

There's a whole lot more to Wade's post, so please click over and explore it for yourself!

Part of the reason I find this topic so interesting is the focus of the Baha'i Faith on unity. 'Abdu'l-Bahá states: "Bahá'u'lláh spent His life teaching this lesson of Love and Unity." The rising tide of research on the positive influence of social relationships, and, conversely, the negative effects of social isolation, are to me a real confirmation of this teaching. I previously posted a bit about this topic here. The universal principle underlying these findings was described in the following terms by 'Abdu'l-Bahá:
. . . consider the phenomenon of composition and decomposition, of existence and non-existence. Every created thing in the contingent world is made up of many and varied atoms, and its existence is dependent on the composition of these. In other words, through the divine creative power a conjunction of simple elements taketh place so that from this composition a distinct organism is produced. The existence of all things is based upon this principle. But when the order is deranged, decomposition is produced and disintegration setteth in, then that thing ceaseth to exist. That is, the annihilation of all things is caused by decomposition and disintegration. Therefore attraction and composition between the various elements is the means of life, and discord, decomposition and division produce death. Thus the cohesive and attractive forces in all things lead to the appearance of fruitful results and effects, while estrangement and alienation of things lead to disturbance and annihilation. Through affinity and attraction all living things like plants, animals and men come into existence, while division and discord bring about decomposition and destruction.

Consequently, that which is conducive to association and attraction and unity among the sons of men is the means of the life of the world of humanity, and whatever causeth division, repulsion and remoteness leadeth to the death of humankind.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Vic,
We live in an age of isolation. People meet mostly at work or in some formal social setting like parties...etc. We have lost the contacts and exchange of ideas done on the front stoop of the house or at the corner cafe and families rarely meet for meals. We spend more time alone in front of our computers than conversing with others.
But people are gregarious and love to discuss their opinions, they are also ingenious... this is why blogging was born!
Claudine

Victor said...

Dear Claudine,

Thank you so much for your comment. It triggered me to do some more research into the concepts of isolation and estrangement, and I found a quotation from 'Abdu'l-Baha that I just added to the original post about the processes of composition and decomposition, and their implications from the atomic to the human levels.

It seems that technology, like computers, can certainly become a source of estrangement and isolation when carried to excesses. It can also be a crutch that creates barriers between people--why go visit a friend when you can call them? Why call them when you can email?

Ideally, technology will be put in service of creating closer bonds of connection between people, and to a certain extent that is already happening, as you point out with respect to blogs. But there certainly is a long way to go still! I wonder if there are other ways technology can be used to create closer bonds of intimacy between people?

Anonymous said...

What a great post! I was just talking with my friend Maggie last night about this very passage! (Hi Maggie - hope you get to see this - it was so nice meeting you in Beijing!) We were talking about how some companies think that by cheating & lying they will get ahead. But in the long run, through the destruction of relations though lack of truthfulness, decay sets in. This is what I so admire about the Chinese culture - there is a real understanding of the need for unity. This is a priorty - before other endevors are contemplated. Keep up these interesting posts!
love, shahla

Anonymous said...

Thanks Victor!

A related and intriguing trend is the growth of the positive psychology movement in academia.

It expresses the need for a value-centered and socially engaged understanding of life. See the recent NY Times piece about it:

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/01/07/magazine/07happiness.t.html?pagewanted=1&ei=5087%0A&em&en=cb8e2e72da22c9f4&ex=1168491600

While it is encouraging that researchers are trying to better understand the role of social values like courage, selflessness, reciprocity, cooperation, and forgiveness--it's not clear how such values can be systematically cultivated without concrete reference to our underlying spiritual identity (or having a framework for mediating among disparate value systems--here the Baha'i teachings have much to offer!). But still a most interesting trend...

Matt

Victor said...

Matt,

Thank you for your comment and for the link to the article about positive psychology. I never thought to consider that phenomenon as a counterbalance to the forces of isolation that exist in our society today--very interesting! It seems from the article that courses in positive psychology are hugely popular among undergrads at a number of universities--indicative of the spiritual thirst that we all share.

The question though of how this is systematically cultivated hits the nail on the head!