The differences in manners, in customs, in habits, in thoughts, opinions and in temperaments is the cause of the adornment of the world of mankind. This is praiseworthy. Likewise this difference and this variation, like the difference and variation of the parts and members of the human body, are the cause of the appearance of beauty and perfection.I've been thinking a bit about the notion of the value of differences of temperaments among people, and the corollary that there is no ideal temperament, but rather each temperament has something unique to contribute to the world. In a similar vein, Psychology Today's website contains an article by Elizabeth Svoboda examining the phenomenon introverts, or, to use the article's term, "loners"--people who tend to be more solitary in their living patterns. The article's premise is that "[l]oners are pitied in our up-with-people culture. But the introvert reaps secret joy from the solitary life." Svoboda writes:
Previous MRI studies have shown that during social situations, specific areas in the brains of loners experience especially lively blood flow, indicating a sort of overstimulation, which explains why they find parties so wearying. But Guyer's results suggest that introverts may be more attuned to all sorts of positive experiences as well. This added sensitivity, she speculates, could mean that people who are reserved have an ability to respond quickly to situations—such as coming to your aid in a moment of need—or show unusual empathy to a friend, due to their strong emotional antennae.While our interconnectedness and interdependence are undeniable, it is interesting to consider the spectrum of personalities that comprise humanity, and the diversity of ways in which people approach engaging with each other. I wonder if the term "loner" is even a useful one, or if perhaps people who fall in the general category described in the article merely prefer to engage with others in a unique way.Research by San Francisco psychotherapist Elaine Aron bears out Guyer's hunch, demonstrating that withdrawn people typically have very high sensory acuity. Because loners are good at noticing subtleties that other people miss, Aron says, they are well-suited for careers that require close observation, like writing and scientific research. It's no surprise that famous historical loners include Emily Dickinson, Stanley Kubrick, and Isaac Newton.
It would be interesting to see if studies could further attempt to understand and identify the strengths of various personality types and temperaments, and if organizational structures could be devised in such a manner as to maximize the potential of each person. Perhaps even the mere consciousness of the benefit of our diversity in all of its forms is a big step in the direction of promoting the appearance of the beauty and perfection of humanity that 'Abdu'l-Baha describes.
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